It is time for the most interesting , insightful and most educative program on Earth as we gather to learn and hear from the feet of the master, Jesus Christ through His prepared vessel.

We will briefly look at the meaning of Unforgiveness in this context before we dive fully into the teaching of today. Take your writing materials and be prepared.

UNFORGIVENESS is an habit that has eaten deep into the growth of Love in Marriages.

From our previous class, we have come to the understanding that our spouses are not angels then there are chances that we will offend ourselves. With this, there should be room for forgiveness so as not to cause trouble in the heart of the other person (Heb 12 vs 15)

If Unforgiveness can be likened to be a poison and bitterness to the heart then it implies that forgiveness is a purifying / cleansing agent. Forgiveness energizes and strengthen the bond of intimacy between both parties. If we learn to forgive, then we obey the word of God as written in Matt 6 vs 12 that will help us grow in marriage.

Forgiveness is a process and not a one time thing.

STEPS TO BE TAKEN UNTO FORGIVENESS

👉 Release the guilty person from your judgment: Don’t judge the person. Don’t dwell too much in the offences of the person to ease the pain.

👉 Be determine to forgive: With this, you have to take decision to forgive the person and love the person over the pain he or she had caused you.

👉Bless your partner: By praying for him or her despite the spouse’s offense. Failure to bless your partner can caused him or her some pains, which you should be ready to face the consequences together because marriage is more than I DO which many responded to at the alter. Prayer is a powerful tool to use in the marriage.

👉 Move On: forgive and forget such hurt. We should imbibe the attribute of God forgiving. We can decide not to dwell in the hurt rather forgive, forget and Live on. Depression sets in whenever one keep feeding on the hurt. Never stop forgiving your spouse.

👉 Repeat all the aforementioned steps until there is genuine release, forgiving, forgetting, blessing and living on

Thank you so much. This is where we will be dropping tonight’s pen as we continue the effect of Unforgiveness in the marriage next week Wednesday.

Feel free to comment, share your experience and direct your questions to us. God bless us

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