Courtship

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MARRIAGE EXPECTATIONS AND HOW TO RESOLVE THEM

Every marriage in life has her own expectations and the way you resolve them differs based on your level of marital understanding. Listed below are some of the expectations in a marriage.

1. Challenges with finance
2. Loneliness 
3. Romance and affection
4. Inlaw strains
5. Self respect or according each other respect
6. Spiritual  growth together
7. Consideration for each other’s differences
8. Trials and suffering
9. Spending quality time with each other
10. Patience
11. Helping each others in all ways
12. Children
13. Communication  challenges
14. Sexual intimacy
15. Resolving conflicts
16. Determining priorities

4 GREAT WAYS TO RESOLVE ALL MARRIAGE EXPECTATIONS

1. Remember your commitment to a lifetime love and forgiveness.

2. Proper communication and understanding. (it simply means talking and active listening, it’s a two way process according to English)
Beware, ladies are difficult to understand so as a man, you will have to learn how to deal her with understanding.

3. Work to develop God’s perspective of you and your spouse – Since you believe in him that he provided your spouse for you.

4. Don’t give up on your dreams – Communicate about your dreams and share things together, don’t think alone when in marriage, share it with your spouse for easy and fast accomplishment.

God bless you.

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ACTIONS THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES.

Welcome to another episode of Youth Get Ready class. Today, we will be considering some actions, behaviors or things that can actually destroy Marriages. Many among them are things that people neglect and count as *doesn’t matter*. Sit back, take your pen and jot as you read through those actions briefly.

Before we dive deeply into the class, I want us to understand that the actions are not limited to the ones we will be discussing tonight.

👉Communication Challenge: Good communication smoothens a successful marriage. The challenges here include::

  • Poor skills
  • Abusive words
  • Create time to discuss life and selves

👉Unforgiveness :: Imbibe the habit of forgiving your spouse to avoid things that might crush marriage. Remember, we ain’t perfect and learn to let go!

👉 Pride:: Egoism kills many Marriages. Men should take not of this piece.
Learn to say sorry when you’re wrong and do the needful. Watch it

👉 Taking Your Spouse For Granted :: Always take your marriage vow serious and don’t take it for granted. To the ladies, learn to dress well and don’t cultivate the habit of using wrapper up and down the home. To the men, take good care of your woman.

👉 Family or Friendly Intervention :: Your new family should be your utmost priority. In all, let your spouse be first..

👉 Unreliable :: ONCE the spouse ain’t reliable, this can cause chaos in marriage. Taking note of discussed matters especially those ones that you didn’t finalized…

👉 Tuning With your Spouse’s :: Try to understand the expression written all over your spouse and feel concern about it. Show sympathy and empathy when necessary.

👉 Touch In Marriage :: Never underestimate the power of touch in your marriage and the power or energy it gives to your spouse. There should be at least a touch (kiss, caress etc) in a day and give your spouse a sensitive touch. Marriages ain’t all about sex….

👉 Avoiding Conflicts ::Always embrace meaningful conversation. Welcome a positive reasoning and fix things up. Dig deep to settle matters

👉 Lack Of Investment :: Plan to have many sources and don’t forget giving your children a full lifetime investment

This brings us to the end of today’s class. If you have question drop it in the comment section and it will be treated well.

God bless you